Author Archives: thesmallc
Too formal
I find that the culture at my cancer hospital is too formal. And sometimes I need a hug or two. Maybe I am asking for too much. I recall my first visit. I first met with my surgeon, who was … Continue reading
Wish list
There is this writing program sponsored by my cancer hospital that allows patients to express themselves and get an opportunity to publish their work. Each year, I try to write a piece and submit it for publication. For this year, … Continue reading
My Caregiver
I feel like I’ve taken my caregiver for granted. I know he is always there, waiting to please me. Always aware of my struggles and trying to comfort me in every way he can, even when he himself doesn’t have … Continue reading
“Kiddo”
Here’s something about me: I love interacting with old people. If I get invited to a gathering, you’ll always see me talking to the older crowd. Being someone who was raised by her grandparents, I always had an appreciation for … Continue reading
Pink-Washing
My intention was to try to avoid Pinktober this year, especially after losing my friend Cathy last month. I’ve avoided going shopping to avoid being aggravated by all the pink branding. But sometimes it’s just unavoidable. Suddenly you see a … Continue reading
I’m in no mood — unless you keep it real
Pinktober is approaching. And I’m in NO mood to deal with it. I don’t know about you, but I am tired. What am I tired of you ask? Well, I am tired of… ✔ Money spent on breast cancer “awareness.” … Continue reading
Cathy
My friend is gone. I’ve said this to myself repeatedly the past few days, and it doesn’t sink in. I met Cathy through Terri, a mutual friend, in January 2011. Terri had suggested I reach out to Cathy because Cathy … Continue reading
The small c 